Scoutmaster Ashara took the correct approach. Just as you would go to Skyhold if you wished to make a complaint about my behavior, the Scoutmaster went to your superior.

[ he sits up, hands folded neatly in his lap. ]

The issue here is not what she said, or how you may have taken it- though given the situation, I am taking that into account- but that you demeaned and spoke over the highest ranking member of the Inquisition present during a crisis. You are a healer. You know what can happen if soldiers doubt a superior in the middle of battle, if they hesitate. Your remark sowed discord, even if you did not mean to.

[ thranduil looks away to pull a sheet of paper from his desk, and to slide that and an inkwell towards her. ]

If you wish to register a complaint about her behavior during the expedition, I would recommend writing a letter to Spymaster Leliana. I welcome you to make use of my office to do so. We have several ravens that could take such a letter to Skyhold today.

[ he has no intention of discouraging her, only informing her of all of her options. ] But if you do so, the matter is out of my hands.